Self-Care for Caregivers: Supporting Parents of Children with ADHD and Autism
When you prioritize self-care, you are better equipped to support your child and navigate the complexities of parenting.
As children grow, their bodies change in remarkable ways, and their brains are no exception. For parents and caregivers, understanding a bit about neurobiology (the science of how the brain and nervous system works) can help explain why kids think, feel and react the way they do at different ages. While brain science can be complex, breaking down some basics can offer valuable insights into how to support healthy brain development and help children thrive.
Neurobiology is the study of the nervous system, especially the brain. It looks at how different areas of the brain interact, how they help regulate emotions, make decisions and enable learning. In young people, neurobiology provides a window into how their minds grow and adapt, which is helpful for understanding everything from attention spans to social interactions.
Children’s brains grow rapidly from birth until their mid-20s, though the most intense changes occur in early childhood and adolescence. In these years, the brain goes through phases of “pruning” (shedding connections that are not frequently used) and “myelination” (strengthening pathways with a fatty covering that helps with faster processing). These processes help streamline the brain, allowing children to master essential skills and, later, complex thinking.
By understanding how children’s brains develop, parents and educators can be more supportive of youth at various stages.
Here is how neurobiology helps us understand and guide them:
Knowing how the brain grows and adapts offers some pointers on helping kids flourish:
Understanding neurobiology in youth helps demystify many behaviors, emotions and challenges kids face. Though every child is unique, knowing some basics about brain development can empower caregivers to support healthy growth, creating a foundation for lifelong well-being and resilience.
When you prioritize self-care, you are better equipped to support your child and navigate the complexities of parenting.
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